Contemplation On Relationships

Today I am in a lot of pain, and in order to soothe it I decided to create a list of what kept on bothering my mind for a couple of days after observing people in complicated life situations.

I do not want to be with a person incapable of dealing with stress.

I do not want to be with a person incapable of thinking and analyzing.

I do not want to be with a person incapable of making decisions.

I do not want to be with a person incapable of finding answers to questions, solutions to problems.

I do not want to be with a person incapable of being independent.

I do not want to be with a person incapable of being strong.

Why?

Because I do not want to be the person, who has to deal with all the stress.

Because I do not want to be the person, who has to think for two.

Because I do not want to be the person, who has to make all the decisions.

Because I do not want to be the person, who has to find answers to all questions, solutions to all problems.

Because I do not want to be the person, who has to be independent for two.

Because I do not want to be the person, who has to be strong for two.

Because I do not want to be or to do anything for two on a constant basis.